Exploring Why Our Parents Had It Easy Comparing To Us

The classic sentiment: “Our parents had it easy.” It’s a phrase that comes out in moments of frustration, usually accompanied by a nostalgic look back to the past. So, here’s what I think:

The “Back In My Day” Rant

Yes, every story starts with “Back In My Day”. They were walking uphill both ways to school, barefoot, in the snow, fighting off dinosaurs, and using encyclopedias for research. Meanwhile, our current struggles involve the sheer tragedy of a Wi-Fi signal dropping by one bar.

Imagine a world where rotary phones and handwritten letters ruled communication, and binge-watching meant reading an entire book in one sitting. How did they endure such hardships, and what might they think of our contemporary dilemmas?

The Technology Terrors

Our Parents Had It Easy without smartphones. Now, we have to deal with constant notifications, online meetings, and the pressure to maintain the perfect social media presence. In their era, there was no concern about accidentally sending embarrassing selfies to the entire family WhatsApp group. They didn’t have to worry about digital mishaps like us, making their simpler communication stand out against today’s tech-filled lives.

The Dating Dilemma

Our parents had it easy with traditional dating. They met someone, talked face-to-face, and hoped for a call. Now, we navigate the complicated world of online dating – swiping left, swiping right, and decoding text messages like ancient scrolls. Ghosting replaces straightforward rejection, and we decipher emojis like cryptic hieroglyphics. Unlike our parents, we have to decode “LOLs” and “BRBs” just to figure out if a date is still on!

The Career Chaos

Our parents had it easy with stable jobs and linear career paths. We juggle multiple gigs, side hustles, and the existential dread of finding our passion in a world with a million options. They never knew the struggle of going through four interview stages, sharing every detail of your life, blood type, vehicle chassis number, eating habits, sleeping position, and still not getting hired.

Job stability? What’s that?

The Information Overload

Our parents had it easy with limited TV channels and a few newspapers. Their news was straightforward, and they didn’t have to decipher between real news and the tricky internet. Clearly, they had a natural ability to detect fake news that we, unfortunately, lack. Now, we drown in an ocean of information, news alerts, social media updates, trending topics, and endless streaming options. Choosing what to watch feels like a life-altering decision.

The Adulting Comedy Show

Our parents had it easy transitioning into adulthood – buying a house, starting a family, and saving for retirement. Meanwhile, we’re here trying to figure out how to assemble IKEA furniture without losing our sanity and cooking something more complicated than instant noodles. In their day, adulting seemed like a checklist; in ours, it’s more of a survival game with daily challenges.

The Social Comparison

Our parents had it easy without the constant pressure to compare their lives to others on social media. They didn’t have to worry about their life choices being judged by strangers online. Their photos were candid and unfiltered, and they liked it that way. Today, we navigate the fine line between authenticity and the Instagram-worthy façade.

The Relationship Rollercoaster

Our parents had it easy with traditional relationships. We, on the other hand, deal with ghosting, situationships, and the fear of missing out on potential soulmates. Navigating the modern dating scene is like trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube blindfolded.

So….did I miss anything?